You know how sometimes you hear about someone that a friend thinks that you should meet? And then later, another person from a completely unrelated circle says something about the very same person? And then your good friend speaks highly about a person who has been influencial in their life, and you find out it's the same person?
That's happened to me. And it happened with the director that I'm honored to introduce you to today, Alan Fadling. Sadly, Alan and I have never met in person (although I hope to remedy that very soon). However, I know many people who have been deeply influenced by his love of God and others, people with whom he's journeyed God's road. Alan's writing challenges and uplifts me, and I'm looking forward to reading his upcoming book from IVP, Unhurried Time.
Introduce yourself to the Anam Cara readers. Who are you? Where do you live? What do you do other than spiritual direction?
My name is Alan Fadling. I’m graced to be the husband of Gem (27 years this May) and Dad to Sean (19), Bryan (16) and Chris (13). We live in Mission Viejo, CA. I like to think of myself first as a beloved son of my heavenly Father (even though I forget that primary identity sometimes). I am in recovery from my addiction to hurry.
As Associate Director of The Leadership Institute (tli.cc), I serve as Dean of Training for The Journey (a two-year spiritual formation and leadership development process we’ve offered for nearly twenty years now). I also do a lot of retreat leading and, more recently, serve as a consultant to ministries and churches in helping them develop spiritual transformation culture in their life and ministry together. I’m also graced with the opportunity to serve on the board of the Spiritual Formation Alliance based in Denver, CO.
What brought you to the ministry of spiritual direction?
I remember reading Kenneth Leech’s book, Soul Friend in 1991 when I was a local church college pastor. I began to see my pastoral ministry through the lense of spiritual direction—individual and group. I came to believe that I had an opportunity to be a “pointer of the way” (in a John the Baptist sort of way) of students to Jesus.
Why do you think spiritual direction is valuable?
In spiritual direction, I have the opportunity to offer the ministry of listening to God while I listen to another. Most of those I serve in direction are vocational ministers, and they often have no one in their life who listens to them (apart from their ministry speaking roles). There is great power in being heard. I also have the opportunity to help Christian leaders continue to keep first things first in their lives and ministries.
What’s your favorite thing about being a spiritual director?
Watching God work in the life of a person over time. I’m there once a month over sometimes years, getting more of a birds-eye perspective on the journey someone is on. It’s encouraging to me (and to those I serve, I think) to be able to notice spiritual milestones along the way.
What question about spiritual direction do you get asked the most? (And/or what question do you wish you got asked?)
Usually, questions about direction are more details-oriented: definitions, procedures or purpose. I suppose I’d enjoy being asked more often about how direction might help one’s conversational and interactive relationship with God.
You were just given a yacht. What would you name it?
Unhurried Time. (The idea’s on my mind a lot lately).
Give us your life story in 6 words.
I’m not good at such summaries.
Okay, you can have more than 6 words. Share your full bio.
As I mentioned above, I serve as Associate Director of The Leadership Institute in Orange, CA, a ministry that trains Christian leaders to integrate spiritual formation and leadership development. I’m currently working on a book for InterVarsity Press on the theme of unhurried time (due out late 2012 or early 2013). Through my daily blog, “Notes From My Unhurried Journey” (unhurriedtime.com), I share insights from my ministry of spiritual direction, retreat leading and leadership training. I serve as a retreat curator, spiritual director, professor and ministry transformation consultant. I have a deep and abiding desire to help Christian leaders lead from spiritual overflow rather than soul scarcity.
Anything you’d like to add?
Thanks for opening this opportunity to be introduced to your network of friends. May the grace and peace of God bring eternal encouragement, holy energy and clear direction to you.